Don’t Sweat Small Stuff

Setiap mata pisau mengiris selalu ada dua sisi. Hidup berpindah-pindah negara rupanya banyak memberikan pelajaran buat saya. Di setiap tempat punya sistemnya sendiri, be it: sistem transportasi, sistem administrasi, tata kota, budaya, dan sebagainya. Suatu ketika mungkin kita bisa terlena dengan satu sisi dari sistem. Mungkin sisi ini memberikan kenyamanan,…

Restarting More Often

(I started writing this post on October, obviously some things have changed) Since my thesisĀ defenseĀ is done and all the requirements for my bachelor degree is settled, now I am free from college activities. My graduation is still in November. Not that it means I do not have anything to do…

A Box of Poisonous Fume

There is a wooden box, not too small and not too large, just the right size to carry around. The wood is no longer firm, scrapes are everywhere. Painted white, with thin embroidered laces around the edges. Right in the middle, a keyhole with golden plate. That is vintage-style, dented,…

Out of the Comfort Zone

Just saying, why aren’t there many athletes who are “native” Indonesians, and so are some other occupations like entrepreneurs. I know most people seeks things like “kemapanan”. From the beginning to now on people tend to follow the system. I am not saying its bad, because they do well in…

Kenikmatan Spiritual Hidup di Kalangan Minoritas

Pernah terbayang hidup di kalangan minoritas? Mungkin terpaksa menuntut ilmu di institusi berbasis agama lain, atau bahkan tinggal di negara yang sedikit jumlah umat Islamnya? Lalu jika kita berada di kalangan non-muslim Apakah akan sulit kita mengamalkan agama dan mencari kebahagiaan spiritual? Apakah kita selalu akan mengikuti arus dan melupakan…

Trust

Saya: Mungkin ada baiknya kalau polisi memulai memberikan imej berbeda pada masyarakat, utamanya anak-anak. Imej yang bersahabat dan ada untuk melayani masyarakat, bukan untuk dijadikan obyek penakut-nakut yang dipakai saat membuat anak itu supaya tidak menangis lagi.Polisi: Ya mungkin bisa kami berpakaian seperti badut dan bertingkah lucu agar anak-anak suka..…

Study at the Best University, Can We?

Imagine you are a student of Gadjah Mada University, Indonesia. The university which is considered one of the top three in the country. If your dream was to pursue a career in oil company, aiming for the best company in the world like, name it, Exxon, BP, Chevron, Schlumberger, Total,…

the act of letting go

yesterday i was on the train to jakarta. i saw a married couple and their child. the child was one or two years old. the family sat on a double train couch and the child was unhappy all the way. the parents tried everything to calm down the child until…